30+ Married People Shared The Secrets They Learned About Their Spouses After Marrying Them, And They're Shocking

This article appeared in fabcrunch.com and has been published here with permission.

Most people know each other pretty well before they decide to get married, right? Well, apparently not! No matter how long you’ve been together, it seems that some things only come out years into marriage. At least, that’s what happened to these people. These people shared online what were the surprising secrets they found about their spouses only after they tied the knot. And, boy, are these secrets juicy!

But it Doesn’t Count!

It’s perfectly normal to be in at least a few relationships before you settle down and decide to commit to someone. Today, it’s also pretty regular to have gone through a marriage or two before your current partner. It can take time to find the right person for you. But, to take the leap and get married six times, and even worse — not to tell your current spouse about it is definitely a serious secret! Even so, we would like to know how long the marriages that didn’t count lasted…

But it Doesn’t Count!

It’s in the Past

It’s perfectly normal to want to know everything about your spouse’s past. But, the fact is, their past absolutely doesn’t concern anyone except them. So, we love this husband’s attitude of not making a fuss over her past. It really is none of his business what she used to do, especially since it sounds like she stopped long before they ever knew each other. Plus, it seems there are a few appreciated perks!

It’s in the Past

So Cliché

Sadly, one of the most common secrets between couples is cheating and infidelity. It’s especially bad when it’s with someone you used to consider a friend. This person didn’t only have to deal with losing a wife but also a best friend after they decided to cheat together. It must have been extra devastating to actually catch them very clearly in the act.

So Cliché

Oops Baby

As the saying goes, cheaters never prosper. But, it seems like that might not be 100% accurate. At least in some cases. Sometimes, cheaters gain strangely unexpected (and somewhat unwanted) prizes. Just read what this husband accidentally helped his wife figure out. While she might have lost her marriage, she did gain a pregnancy. There’s definitely a lesson in here about how all actions have consequences.

Oops Baby